'Here you are, Mommy. This is the sweeter one'.
No matter who you are, how experienced you are, and how knowledgeable you think you are, always delay judgement. Give others the privilege/opportunity to explain themselves. What you see may not be the reality. Never conclude for others. Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first. Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money. Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility. Those who apologize first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them. Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend. Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart. Those who take out time to chat with you, does not mean they are jobless or less busy, but they know the importance of keeping in touch. One day, all of us will get separated from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything & nothing; the dreams that we had. Days will pass by, months, years, until this contact becomes rare...
One day children will see your pictures and ask 'Who are these people?' And we will smile with invisible tears because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will say:
'IT WAS WITH THOSE FRIENDS THAT I HAD SOME OF THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFE'.
